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I frequent Sacramento's top night club for dancing in Sacramento if some of my young women friends text me and want to meet me there, as they drive down from Yuba City which is 60 miles away. They are young Sikh women who recently graduated from UC Davis and they car pool down in a group because they love to dance and party.
I head down to the Park Ultra Lounge across from Capitol Park and to meet them and offer to buy Tali a cosmos. She is pretty high after one and later wants to order another cosmos and then she is looped and dancing without abandon. I order my Corona light and watch her get tanked. I hug her as the night ends and wave to her across the room (Sikh women have the most beautiful eyes) and watch her wobble out the door.
Here's what I would like to say to Kayden. Giving up drinking is admirable, but it's not a lot of fun in a social setting to be the only one not drinking. And it sounds like Kayden is more of a social drinker (I am also, it is extremely rare I would drink alone).
So Kayden, why not limit yourself to one drink and sip it or leave part of it in the glass. Your friends will not think you unsocial and you will feel better at the end of the night. After one drink order something nonalcoholic. If you find you really don't want to give up social drinking, moderation is the key.
Why don't you just admit it: giving up alcohol is a way of giving up porn (in your mind) without having to give up porn (in your body). Of course, the creme de la creme - the money of the money - doesn't come when you're drunk, but without all of the drunken escapades, none of the creme de la creme would be so... creme da la creme.
So you're giving up drinking. Woo hoo! You'll coast off of your reputation for a few years, and those around you won't be able to pick up what your plan is, and once you have enough $$$ to "retire", you'll be able to graciously - without being a known as a drunk - or a bitch (with a brain).
In an industry that thrives on deception, I don't expect you to say it to "fans" (I expect this post to be read and deleted before it's posted, as is usual nowadays) - but I still can't figure out why you all need to decieve one another.
Drop the pretense. Just say it: you can't stand one another. You can't get along - you can't write all of the "fun" posts and make all of the "crazy" interviews without alcohol. I mean seriously, you're locked in a contract. You'll get paid for the next 730 days no matter what (right?). Wouldn't it feel much better, inside your pussy, to lay back in 2011 and know that you've got all their money, but you've still got a shred of your brain left (even if it's the alcohol part), without having to say that that part is all alcohol's fault?
Drink more water. Not sure if you are a smoker but they don't help either.
Grant is a disturbed individual.
I have to agree with Mark, especially about Grant.
I, for one, am proud of you for quitting. It's not a moral issue, but you clearly understood that whatever "benefit" you derived from drinking was not worth the downside, so you made the mature choice.
I'm not naive about the industry; I know there are and have been plenty of actresses who had esteem or other psychological issues and need(ed) chemical enhancement to do some of the things they do. I'm hoping, however, that you have been (relatively) candid in your blogs and are one of the level-headed "exceptions to the rule".
Kudos to you, but chugging water is a big help if you decide not to stick with it. Also sugary drinks and wine can give you worse hangovers than less sweet mixed drinks or beers. With the craft beer industry flourishing in the Us like it is right now, it might be worth finding a tasting.
Nice Kayden! I'm the same way, hangovers are a drag. Good for you!
x!
i stopped drinking the day u posted it....and im doing good.just stopped it. thanks.:)
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